Build Connection, trust and intimacy

When conversations keep breaking down into arguments or silence, it’s easy to feel alone. We help couples learn a kinder, clearer way to speak and listen, so understanding and closeness can grow.

We are Monica Reu and Ian Peatey: CNVC Certified Nonviolent Communication trainers and Solution-Focused relationship coaches specialising in couples communication, relationship repair and conscious separation.

If your relationship feels hard right now … you’re not alone! Most couples weren’t taught how to talk about difficult feelings or deal with conflicts — especially when love is on the line. You’re  not failing — you’re trying to protect what’s important.

There is  a heathier, more connected way to communicate.

Programmes to learn to express and hear each other in ways that build trust and reduce defensivenesss so emotional safety and closeness can grow. 

Support in your unique challenges as a couple. We work with you together, or individually, as needed.

Mediation to support you work through challenges in real time as well as helping you learn how to better navigate conflict on your own.

BEFORE

• Conversations escalate quickly
• You feel misunderstood
• One, or both, shut down
• Old patterns repeat

AFTER

• Pause, stay present and listen
• Express needs without blame
• Conflict is safer and resolves faster
• Learn to trust and stay close

Mona and Ian are great facilitators and two beautiful human beings who live the method and show they have done a lot of work on themselves. 

Daniela Pavlovici

I feel thrilled how fast the practice of NVC has helped me to improve my relationship.

Verena Schmitz

We are Trainers certified by the Center for Nonviolent Communcation and Solution Focus Coaches with over 20 years experience.

We have navigated our own set of challenges — parenting ups and downs, illness, cultural differences, conflicts and disconnection.

From experience and practice we’ve learned how gentle, clear communication rebuilds connection. We are committed to making relationships the place where we are truly seen.

Curious to learn more?

We’ll help you experience the power of NVC in your relationship